Vägledare (Pathfinder)
Step into a world of relaxation and tranquility. The gentle flicker of candles and soothing sounds of soft music create a peaceful atmosphere, allowing you to fully unwind. My skilled hands use the pressure you desire, working to knead away knots of tension in your muscles, improving circulation and allowing stress to fade away. Experience the ultimate in relaxation and leave your worries behind.
Vägledare
In Swedish, the word for my role is vägledare – a pathfinder, counsel and guide. I can, if you wish, vägleda – show the way to your desires.
Here, we will take a journey of sensual exploration and pleasure discovery. I am an open and understanding person with whom you can explore your erotic potential, learn to enhance your somatic embodied experience of sexuality, and of course - your pleasure.
I bring a multitude of approaches to this domain - drawn from my lived experience, knowledge of sacred sexuality tradition of Swedish massage, and understanding of embodied counselling and somatic regulation. My formal experience also includes studies in Sexological Bodywork, how to work with and treat vaginismus as well as support those with disabilities. I am currently studying how to support during and after pregnancy.
We meet where you are presently in your journey with your body and desires, and steer a course which will be tailored to you and your own needs.
I lay out for you – my four main offerings:
Sensual Healing
Erotic Exploration
Embodied Ecstasy
Swedish Massage
These may not be separate pursuits, but overlap in various ways, or one in particular may be most aligned to where you are right now in your needs and desires.
To begin, you need to feel and know you are in safe hands, as you get to know me and feel comfortable enough to open up and share with me.
Sensual Healing
You may have some past experiences that have affected your ability to fully open yourself to someone sexually and be yourself. This is a common adaptive self-protection mechanism that a person may guard themselves or detach from some part of their body as a result of past trauma or sensitivity, Vaginismus (presence of pain or apprehension associated with penetration, whether in thought or actual engagement), injury including childbirth, medical issue or challenge, or an experience of shame. The aim is to get you back into fully-embodied connection with yourself, your body and sexuality, and to be able to nurture that connection on your journey.
Erotic Exploration
We focus on how to enhance your erotic embodiment and pleasure, by learning about connection and intimate flow. We explore your wells of desire and sexuality to craft an encounter that enables that energy to flow, and explore its path and pleasures. My own erotic interests are diverse and devious, and I enjoy indulging your desires and your richly delicious erotic imagination. I encourage you to lean in to the process of ascertaining your arousal responses, discover and explore your fantasies and desires.
Embodied Ecstasy
The focus is on reaching states of ecstasy, through a curated experience of sensation and deep surrender. To achieve this, I create experiences designed to excite and awaken your body in pleasure, while quietening the mind. To facilitate you getting out of your head and into embodied pleasure and ecstasy, we will practise sensual bodywork, ecstatic breath, erotic entwinement and unwavering presence. You may choose to indulge in a wholly passive and receptive mode of experiencing, or to ramp up to a more mutual interaction.
Swedish massage
Swedish massage is a therapeutic massage technique that originated in Sweden. It utilizes a range of hand movements such as flowing strokes, kneading, and circular pressure to relax muscles and enhance blood circulation, promoting stress reduction and overall well-being. This type of massage is suitable for people of all ages and fitness levels and the pressure can be adjusted to meet the client's preferences, ranging from deep tissue to light and gentle or even sensual.
Australian Adult industry award:
BEST MALE SENSUAL / EROTIC MASSAGE PROVIDER
2023
What to expect
There are particular tools I use in my practice to facilitate comfort, enhance your confidence and self-knowledge, and enable body-positive and sex-positive conversations around your desires, needs and wants.
Some possible enquiries may be:
How can I increase sensation and pleasure in my genitals and body?
How can I regulate my arousal/erection and orgasm (early/delayed)?
How can I build confidence in my sexual skills (touch/massage, oral, kissing, intercourse)? How do I go about asking for and receiving feedback?
How do I figure out what I want sexually? And once I know what I want, how do I ask for what I want?
How can I maintain my sexuality and pleasure, through stress, ageing, illness, injury or disability?
I like to ensure that any learning and self-development is exciting and engaging, as a part of your journey of discovery.
These can be structured sessions after an initial chat, starting with an embodiment exercise before progressing with session, finishing with a debrief period to allow for consolidation and integration. These sessions will not look like a traditional erotic (or sex work) encounter, and orgasms are free-flowing rather than set goals of the session.
There can sometimes be some aspects when exploring sexuality which raise feelings of unfamiliarity, or perhaps a sense of slight awkwardness at the newness of the practice and discovery. Laughter and ecstasy, questions and do-overs, relational ruptures and repairs are welcome and expected in a longer journey.
I welcome everyone, all sexualities and gender expressions (LGBTQIA+ friendly), disabilities, and all those who are newly experiencing their present body and sexuality, and exploring some part of themselves in a way that feels new.
If you have any questions about my offering or session structures, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
Meet and Greet and First session
Whether you are making up your mind or simply interested in finding out more, this time is great to see if the chemistry is right, discuss possibilities and ask any questions or just to have a cup of tea and a laugh. An introduction is a great opportunity to calm the nerves.
Our first session can be only talking, or you may also want to gauge our chemistry - receiving a massage can be a wonderful opportunity to meet and relax, while also providing a calming atmosphere to ease any nervous tension. It's a chance to get a sense of what it would be like to spend time together on a more intimate date.
For any seeking to adress powerful issues through an exploration of their sexuality, I recommend a 2 hour session to start your journey.